Manifesting a specific person using the Law of Assumption is simpler than it sounds!
It’s all about assuming that your desire is already a reality, without worrying about the “how” or “when.”
By shifting your mindset, using affirmations, and living as though you already have your SP, you can effortlessly attract them into your life.
Let’s dive into the step-by-step guide that will help you manifest your SP with ease.
1. Drop the “Manifesting” Mindset
Okay, first things first—stop treating your SP like some prize you’ve gotta “manifest” into existence. That’s already lack mentality. You don’t “manifest” your own damn hand, right? It’s just there. Same with your person. The second you decided you wanted them, they were yours. Period.
The more you act like they’re some separate thing you’ve gotta “get,” the more you reinforce that they’re not yours. And guess what? The 3D’s gonna match that energy. So cut it out.
Ever notice how you don’t stress about your phone being in your pocket? You just know it’s there. That’s the energy you want with your SP. Not hope, not waiting—just knowing.
Sound too simple? Good. It is.
2. Assume They’re Yours NOW
Alright, let’s get one thing straight—there’s no “soon,” no “if,” no “when the universe decides.” That’s all bullshit. Your SP is yours right now. Not tomorrow, not after you do some fancy technique for 30 days—now.
Think about it: when you’re actually in a relationship, do you sit around wondering if you’re together? Hell no. You just are. That’s the energy you need to embody. Stop waiting for some external sign or for them to text you first. You’re already together in your mind, so act like it.
And no, this doesn’t mean you have to fake some over-the-top happiness 24/7. It just means you drop the desperation. You don’t stalk their socials, you don’t analyze their every move, and you sure as hell don’t beg the universe to “send them back.” You’re not a lost and found department. They’re already yours.
The 3D is slow as hell sometimes, but who cares? You know the truth. So relax. They’re yours.
3. Revise the Past (If Needed)
Here’s the tea – your “past” with this person isn’t set in stone. At all. It’s just a story you keep telling yourself, and guess what? You’re the damn author.
So if there’s some old drama or breakup that’s living rent-free in your head, evict that shit.
Let me break it down simple:
- That time they ghosted you? Never happened. In your new story, they’ve always been obsessed with you.
- That fight you can’t stop replaying? Nope. You two have always communicated perfectly.
- That ex they’re supposedly with right now? Doesn’t exist in your reality.
I’m not telling you to deny facts – I’m telling you to CREATE BETTER ONES. Your memories are literally as flexible as you decide they are. The version you choose to believe becomes your truth. So why would you choose the shitty version?
Pro tip: When an old memory pops up, immediately flip it. They ignored your text? Actually no, they blew up your phone apologizing for taking 5 minutes to respond. See how easy that is?
4. Ignore the 3D (Without “Ignoring” It)
Okay, here’s where people get tripped up. When I say “ignore the 3D,” I don’t mean pretend you’re blind. That’s just spiritual bypassing bullshit. You’re not a Sims character – you live in this world.
But here’s the key: the 3D is ALWAYS on delay. It’s showing you yesterday’s news while your assumption is creating tomorrow’s front page.
So when you see something you don’t like:
- Them being distant? That’s old energy.
- Them with someone else? That’s a glitch in the matrix.
- Radio silence? That’s just the universe setting up the perfect comeback.
The trick isn’t to ignore what you see – it’s to refuse to let it mean anything. The 3D is like a toddler throwing a tantrum – if you react, it keeps doing it. But if you stay unbothered? It gets bored and moves on.
Ask yourself: Would someone who’s already in the relationship they want be freaking out over this? Nope. So why are you?
Still stressing about what you’re seeing? Or are you ready to start seeing through it?
5. Stop Checking for “Signs”
Babe, I need you to put down the tarot cards and step away from the horoscope apps. This isn’t a scavenger hunt – you don’t need “signs” to prove what you already know.
In fact, looking for validation from the universe is just sneaky doubt in a spiritual costume.
Here’s the hard truth: When you truly know something, you don’t need confirmation. You don’t look for “angel numbers” to tell you your phone is in your pocket, do you? Same energy.
The more you look for signs, the more you’re admitting you don’t actually believe it’s done.
And let’s be real – you’ll drive yourself insane analyzing every little thing:
- “They liked my post! It’s a sign!”
- “They didn’t like my post! It’s a test!”
- “A blue car drove by! Our song mentions blue cars!”
Cut it out. You’re the god of your reality – you don’t need permission slips from the universe. The only sign you need is your own damn assumption.
Still feeling tempted to check for “proof”? Or are you ready to be your own confirmation?
6. Live From the End
Okay, this is where the magic happens—actually living like it’s done. Not just saying it, not just affirming it, but moving through your day like your SP is already yours. Because they are.
Inner Conversations:
Stop the “I hope they text me” nonsense. Your mental dialogue should sound like:
- “My boyfriend/girlfriend always checks in on me.”
- “They’re obsessed with how good we are together.”
- “I love how they can’t keep their hands off me.”
If you wouldn’t think it in a happy, secure relationship, don’t think it now.
Actions:
- You don’t stalk their socials because why would you? You already know what they’re up to—they tell you.
- You don’t manifest “harder” when they’re quiet—you just assume they’re busy and miss you.
- You don’t dress up hoping they’ll notice—you dress up because you’re taken and fine as hell.
Social Media:
Post like someone who’s happily taken—not to bait them, but because you are. No cryptic quotes, no sad-girl playlists. Just living your best life with them (even if they’re not physically there yet).
The more natural this feels, the faster the 3D catches up.
You still acting single in your head, or are you locking in?
7. Drop the “How”
Listen, I know your brain is screaming “BUT HOW WILL IT HAPPEN?!” right now. Shut that noise down. The “how” is none of your damn business.
Seriously. You’re not the universe’s project manager – your only job is to know it’s done.
Think about it: when you order food delivery, do you stress about what route the driver will take? No, you just trust your burrito will arrive. Same principle here.
The bridge of incidents – all those little “coincidences” that bring your SP back – works best when you’re not micromanaging it.
Some ways your brain tries to sabotage this:
- “But they’re dating someone else!”
- “But we haven’t spoken in months!”
- “But they live across the country!”
Newsflash: None of that matters to your assumption. The universe can rearrange circumstances faster than you can doubt them. Your ex’s new fling could move to Antarctica tomorrow. Your SP could randomly get transferred to your city. You don’t need to know how – you just need to know it’s happening.
Still obsessing over logistics? Or are you ready to let the universe handle the details?
8. If Doubt Comes, Revise Again
Look, doubts will pop up—that’s normal. You’re human, not a robot. But here’s the thing: doubts only have power if you entertain them.
The second a “what if they don’t come back?” thought creeps in, you shut it down. Not by fighting it, but by flipping it.
How?
- Doubt: “They’re never gonna text me.”
- Revision: “They’re blowing up my phone right now.”
- Doubt: “What if they don’t actually want me?”
- Revision: “They’re literally obsessed with me.”
You don’t have to believe the revision 100% at first—just keep choosing it. Your mind is like a muscle. The more you train it to default to what you want to believe, the faster it becomes natural.
And hey, if you spiral for a minute? No big deal. Just course-correct. You wouldn’t freak out over missing one gym session, so don’t freak out over one doubtful thought.
You catching this, or is doubt still running the show?
9. They Have No Free Will (In Your Reality)
Alright, let’s drop a truth bomb that might ruffle some feathers: Your SP doesn’t have free will in your reality. At least, not in the way you think.
Their actions, words, and choices are just reflections of your assumptions about them.
Sounds wild? Think about it:
- If you assume they’re distant, they’ll act distant.
- If you assume they’re obsessed with you, they’ll act obsessed.
- If you assume they’re your soulmate, they’ll show up as exactly that.
This isn’t about controlling them like a puppet—it’s about recognizing that your energy dictates how they show up for you. The version of them you experience is the one you’ve decided exists.
So stop worrying about what they’re thinking or doing. The only question that matters:
What version of them are YOU assuming into existence?
Still giving their “choices” power over your peace? Or are you ready to take the wheel?
10. When They Show Up, Act Normal
Alright, let’s talk about what happens when the 3D finally catches up—because it will. Maybe they text out of nowhere. Maybe they confess their feelings. Maybe they break up with whoever else they were with.
However it happens, here’s the key: Don’t freak out.
This isn’t some shocking miracle—it’s exactly what you knew would happen. So:
- No “OMG the Law works!” (Of course it does.)
- No “I can’t believe they’re finally here!” (You did believe it—that’s why they’re here.)
- No over-the-top gratitude posts (unless that’s your vibe).
Just act like it’s the most natural thing in the world. Because it is. You didn’t “manifest” them—you just remembered they were always yours.
And if old doubts try to creep in (“What if they leave again?”), shut that down fast. The same rules apply now as before: Assume they’re yours, and they’ll stay yours.
You ready to receive this like it’s no big deal? Or are you still stuck in “waiting mode”?
Final Note:
This isn’t magic—it’s just how your mind shapes reality. The simpler you keep it, the faster it works. So drop the overthinking, live like it’s done, and watch the 3D bend.
(Now go touch grass. Seriously.)
